A Word From Steve Jones
February 28tH, 2020
Dear pastors, missionaries, chaplains and friends,
Steve Jones here…
Joni Eareckson-Tada shared some helpful reflections on the fiftieth anniversary of her diving accident. Many have called it “Joni’s Ten Words”, and she writes:
“Back in the '70s, my Bible study friend Steve Estes shared ten little words that set the course for my life: ‘God permits what He hates to accomplish what He loves.’
Steve explained it this way: “Joni, God allows all sorts of things He doesn't approve of. God hated the torture, injustice, and treason that led to the crucifixion. Yet He permitted it so that the world's worst murder could become the world's only salvation.”
In the same way, God hates spinal cord injury, yet He permitted it for the sake of Christ in you—as well as in others.”
The Ministry of Presence
All followers of Christ are called to the “one anothers”.
Fellowship Chaplains Living Out the “One Anothers”
Over 100 Fellowship chaplains are acting as the “hands and feet” of Jesus in our communities. Here are just three brief stories from chaplains Sharon Bowler, Carol Bell, and Larry Freeman:
“I am a chaplain attached to New Life Community Church in Grimsby, ON. I was welcomed into the role of church chaplain. I am on call for our church to serve both the church and beyond. I have a monthly ministry at Deer Park Villa in Grimsby, ON where residents from all faiths (and no faiths) and their caregivers attend, and a number of wonderful volunteers from our church have started coming out to serve the seniors there. Several of us designed and made a Dignity Quilt for the Home. This will be used to cover the bodies of deceased residents as they are taken from the facility during a brief service called a Dignity Walk. Pray that the quilt will touch and comfort many families in the years to come.”
— Sharon Bowler
New Life Community church and Deer Park Villa (Grimsby, ON)
“I serve in a half-time position with my home church, Grandview Baptist, overseeing pastoral care. So much of my chaplaincy role blends into my role with the church family at the moment.
Over the past two years I’ve had the opportunity to come alongside a family that is loosely connected with our church. There were critical mental health struggles with chronic depression and suicide ideation. Through a long span of time of offering ongoing visits, prayer and support, a relationship of trust and mutual respect developed. Several months ago, this family experienced the loss of a young adult child to suicide and I was invited to officiate the funeral.
Supporting the family through this time as they deal with this complex grief has become a great learning experience for me. I have been stretched to seek out more information and education about grief support and lean on all that I have learned in the past from my CASC (Canadian Association for Spiritual Care) training. Above all, to be trusted as someone that can hear and help bear the deepest hurts and sorrows, has been most humbling and gratifying. It also is a reminder of how critical the need is for healthy, self-care in the midst of supporting so many hurting people. We can only bear others' burdens when we have enough emotional strength in ourselves to do so.”
— Carol Bell
Chaplain Grandview Baptist Church (Kitchener, ON)
For the last 15 years, Larry Freeman has served full-time as chaplain at the West Parry Sound Health Centre and Lakeland Long Term Care. He was asked to share his thoughts on how to help people in times of great loss. While each situation is different, Larry shares the following thoughts.
“You receive a call to help a family who has just lost a loved one. What do you do? First, get as much information as you can. Name of deceased, name(s) of family members or others that are there, any information available about what happened. Then, introduce yourself to the family and explain why you are there (to provide support, help make calls, get drinks, view the body, wait with them until support system arrives).
--- Welcome to Larry Freeman as Our Newest Member of the Fellowship Team
On September 1, 2019 Larry started a part-time position as the Fellowship’s Chaplain Coordinator. He will serve our more than 100 Fellowship chaplains while recruiting and shepherding future chaplains. Please pray for Larry as he supports Steve Jones (Chaplain Director) and Richard Flemming (Chaplain Member-Care Coordinator) in the stewardship of a ministry that is seeking to be an extension of the local church in the places where people live and work.